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I can’t believe I didn’t know this!

I can’t believe I didn’t know this!

Get ready with Cara - wait until the end to unders

Get ready with Cara - wait until the end to understand why she is tolerating me!

One outfit, three looks featuring my oversized kim

One outfit, three looks featuring my oversized kimono #oanateodoramadethisforyou

"Women would be amazed if they knew what men desir

"Women would be amazed if they knew what men desire about them. Yes, of course, they want to see women naked and supine and melting, but male desire is far more readily stimulated by what the oblique glance discovers: the parted lips, the micron of eyelash which the mascara brush missed, the changing angle and shadow of cleavage, the bra-strap alternately displayed and covered up, the ripe-Camembert plumpness at the edge of hips. There is, inside every adult man, a relentless Peeping Tom, a perennial 14-year-old boy, still amazed by the phenomenon of women on display, flagging their sexuality, their availability, with every square inch of visible flesh, clothing, make-up and curve.
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We desire the personality that we discern in the walk, the clothes, the laugh … We look, and sigh, and wish to do certain things to her, first urgently, then luxuriantly, and keep doing it indefinitely; but we also hunger to have her do certain things to us, unimaginable though it may seem – we want her to want us. We don’t just want her surrender, like a slave captured in battle; we want her approbation, her adoration; we want to enchant her to desire us back. For, no matter how humble we feel before the dizzying fact of female beauty, men are just as narcissistic as women."

I wrote this in my phone on 26.12.2012 and unfortunately I failed to write its author - judging by the other notes I wrote at that time, it might either be from the movie The Perks of Being A Wallflower or from one of Anais Nin’s diaries, but I really have no idea and I can’t find it anywhere online. If you recognize this, please let me know.

Tea gives me time to think. And then it gives me w

Tea gives me time to think. And then it gives me warmth and comfort. And then clarity. And then a gentle boost - not a push, nothing abrupt, but a friendly hand on my shoulder nudging me ahead while saying “Go on, you can go a little further”.